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Cyber Sex

It is said that many people like cyber sex, their sexual fantasies, mutual online flirtation, make a sexual partner. Such crowd is becoming more and more.

This is the articles I found on the net.

Why cyber sex makes people indulge?

Psychiatrist doctor CAI told reporters, cyber sex is the language and network teaser video tools for masturbation type erotic behavior, it does not involve any physical contact, also won't expose her original look, so it can remove people in real sexual contact the shy flu often produce for those "unsafe" provides a safe and places. Meanwhile, the network of sex object is not sure don't have specificity, it can provide different sex object, so it has a constantly changing "novelty". Both "safe" and "novelty", under the action of cyber sex is easy to enable participants to stop.

Participate in network sex is very mixed crowd class, and sexual depressed person with "hooking up, they are involved with different: the level also discretion.”

General Cool Hunters mostly in chat rooms or through QQ chat, watch ornography in pornographic pictures or download pornographic movies; Sex is through the anguish of more video system; the audio-visual virtual sex.

In Internet poll reporter discovery, the cyber sex ultimate ending is mostly to the reality of one-night stands, in some pornographic web sites and some of the porn sites released the cleaner, a large amount of cyber sex ones one-night-stand left after "memorial" pictures. And in these textures surfers, is wanton nasty erotic gentie evaluation.

Story: (slightly)

Experts Point

Sociologists: emphasize the physiological cheerful, ignore spirit .

"Cyber sex exists is sensible, but it's definitely against traditional moral." The anonymity of social psychology experts say, people say that the cyber sex is harmful, because it does not conform to the traditional mode, the default standard sex, and the world in the development, from limiting talk about sex, until now sex readings literally visible, adult things can be bought, network with the premise of sex in development, can say is a new sex implementation.

However, new things doesn't mean it is good thing, although followers thinks the Internet sex can care, reduce the spread of disease separation, and eliminate sexual tension, reduce sexual crime many benefits, but the source overemphasis on it and ignore the physiological cheerful sex itself should have the physical and mental dual exchange. At this level, it is opposite the human and the nature.

The experts say, now is the time to control cyber sex, the emergence of Internet sex is actually people indulge natural emotion results, and too indulge natural emotion will be up for social emotions. And social emotions set a social responsibility, family responsibility, etc., but the responsibility that sustains the normal operation of the society.

Psychologist: health movement relieve pressure

If a person doubts his fascination with network of sex disease, psychology expert suggests they should adopt self diagnosis and cure measures of their own heart, on the one hand, they would tell their good friends or seek advice from a friend; On the other hand self-discipline, self-respect, through other health way (such as physical exercise, tourism and other relief work and learning pressure. Once remove psychological burden, with positive attitude face, he can be more accurately himself assessment, and to find a road back.

Chatting on the Internet, sometimes, some men wanted to take off their clothes, or asked me to take off my clothes, or put camera lower a bit. I refused.

Now, I want to hear everyone's thinkings. What does cyber sex mean for a man or woman? Will it hurt people?


网络性爱
　　　　　　　　　　　　―――写于2011-5-16
听说，很多人喜欢网络性爱，他们在网上进行性幻想、相互调情、结交性伴侣。这样的人群正在变得越来越多。

这是我在网上寻找到的文章：

网络性爱为何让人沉迷？

　　心理科大夫蔡医生告诉记者，网络性爱是以挑逗性的语言和网络视频工具进行自慰式性爱的行为，它不涉及任何身体上的接触，也不会暴露自己本来的面目，因此能够消除人们在进行真实的性接触时经常产生的羞怯感，为那些“不安全”的男女提供了一个安全的场所。而同时，网络性爱的对象是不确定不具有专一性的，它可以提供不同的性爱对象，于是它又具有了不断变化的“新奇感”。在既“安全”又有“新奇感”的作用下，网络性爱就容易使参与者欲罢不能了。

　　参与网络性爱的人群阶层也非常混杂，且性苦闷者与“猎艳者”、猎奇者兼而有之，他们所涉入的层次也高低有别：

　　一般猎奇者大多在聊天室或通过QQ参与色情聊天、观看色情图片或下载色情电影；
　　性苦闷者更多的是通过视频系统进行的声像虚拟性爱；

　
　　在网络调查中记者发现，网络性爱最终的归宿大多是走向现实中的一夜情，在一些色情网站以及一些非色情网站的贴图区，发布着大量的网络性爱者们一夜情后留下的“纪念”图片。而在这些贴图下，是色情网民们肆意龌龊的跟帖评价。
故事：(略)

专家视点

　　社会学家：过分强调生理愉悦忽视精神

　　“网络性爱不管它的存在是否合情理，但它肯定是有悖传统道德的。”一位不愿透露姓名的社会心理学专家说，人们说网络性爱有害，因为它不符合性爱传统模式的默认准则，而这世界在发展，从限制谈论性事，到现在性爱读物随便可见，成人用品随手可购，网络性爱在发展观的前提下，可以说是一种新的性爱实现方式。

　　不过，新的东西并不意味就是好的东西，尽管追随者认为网络性爱可以关爱两地分居，减少疾病传播，消解性欲张力，降低性源犯罪诸多好处，但它过分强调生理愉悦而忽视了性爱本身应具有的肉体和精神上的双重交流。在这个层面上说它是反人类和反自然的。

　　这位专家表示，现在是到了管制网络性爱的时候了，网络性爱的出现实际上是人们放任自然情感的结果，而过分放任自然情感将是对社会情感的放弃。而社会情感集合着社会责任、家庭责任等等，而这些责任维系着社会的正常运行。

　　心理学家：健康运动缓解压力
　　而对于怀疑自己患有网络性爱痴迷症的人，心理学专家建议应采取自我诊断与医治的措施，一方面将自己心中的担忧说给最信任的人听，寻求朋友的意见；另一方面自律、自爱，通过其他健康的方式（如体育锻炼、旅游等）缓解工作及学习压力。一旦脱去心理包袱，以积极心态面对，就能更准确地自我评估，开辟一条康复之路。

在网上聊天时，有时，我会碰到一些男人，他们想自己脱去衣服，或让我脱去衣服，或把摄像头放低一点。我拒绝。

现在，我想听听大家的想法。网络性爱到底意味着什么？它会伤害人吗？