女生必看：这些信号证明他是花花公子

　　为什么有的男人总喜欢处处留情，以伤害他人的感情来收场？总结这类人，他们是喜欢追求女人的快感！如果你想知道你的约会对象是不是这种人，以便在受伤前尽早脱身，你需要知道以下这些事情：

　　1. He'll shamelessly flirt with other women in front of you。

　　在你面前毫不避讳地跟别的女人调情

　　Players are often always thinking about where the next one iscoming from. One of the symptoms of this is that he might blatantlyflirt with other women right under your nose。

　　I'm not saying you have to be paranoid about every girl he talksto, but watch out for him exchanging lots of numbers, or makinginappropriate physical contact with every girl who comes over。

　　2. He openly talks about other women in your presence。

　　当着你的面谈论其他女人

　　Some players will be completely untactful about showing (orevenoutright telling you!) about their attraction for other women. Anyguy who talks about other women being "hot" in your presence is eithertrying to make you jealous, or it's a clear indication that he's notparticularly worried about your feelings (another sign of a player)。

　　3. He's uncurious about you as a person。

　　他并不在乎你的为人

　　Players aren't usually bothered about you past superficialcharacteristics. Usually a "player" type will want you because he'ssexually attracted but he doesn't really want to ask questions that willhelp him know you better as a person。

　　4. He won't go out of his way to plan anything special。

　　他不会为你准备任何特别的惊喜，因为嫌麻烦

　　Players are usually seeing a few women at one time, which oftenmeans they can't be bothered to devote a lot of energy to any one ofthem. A player will often do what's convenient for him. It's unlikelyhe's going to surprise you with tickets to that play you've been dyingto see, or make any romantic gestures。

　　5. He doesn't want to get involved in your life。

　　他不想融入你的圈子

　　Players want casual relationships. That means they get panic at theidea of meeting parents, or getting involved with your friends,or anyactivity which makes him feel like he's in a couple。

　　Guys who want something serious with you will be interested inbecoming a bigger part of your life. On the other hand, players arealways planning their exit. They never want too much emotionalattachment, because they're scared of feeling guilty when they move onto someone else。

　　Watch out for these sure signs and you'll have no problems spotting the players early on!

　　So by now you should understand exactly what type of guys areplayers and who you need to avoid if you want a chance at developingsome kind of relationship. Players don't care about your feelings, theyjust care for themselves, so it's really not worthy our time to try andchange them - because they won't change!